5 Common Dog Training Myths (and What to Do Instead)

Dog training has come a long way — yet many old-fashioned ideas still linger. You’ve probably heard advice like “show your dog who’s boss” or “never use treats, they’ll expect them forever.”

The truth? Modern, science-based training tells a very different story.

These are five common dog training myths I hear most often — and what to do instead.

Myth 1: You Need to Be the ‘Alpha’ or Pack Leader

This idea comes from outdated studies on captive wolves in the 1940s, which suggested that dogs naturally compete for dominance. We now know that’s not true — domestic dogs don’t form pack hierarchies with humans.

Trying to be the “alpha” by using intimidation, harsh corrections, or force damages trust and can make behaviour worse, not better.

✅ What to do instead:
Lead with calm confidence, not control. Focus on connection, clear communication, and consistency. When your dog understands you — and trusts you — they’ll follow your lead naturally.

Good training isn’t about control — it’s about communication.

Myth 2: Using Treats Is Bribery

Many owners worry that using food means “spoiling” their dog or that they’ll never listen without it. But treats aren’t bribes — they’re information.

Dogs learn through association, and rewards help them understand what behaviour earns your approval. Over time, the treats fade, but the learning remains.

✅ What to do instead:
Use treats, praise, and play as rewards when teaching new skills. As your dog becomes more reliable, gradually replace treats with real-life rewards — like going for a walk or getting affection.

Myth 3: Ignoring Bad Behaviour Makes It Go Away

While it’s true that some behaviours fade when they’re not reinforced, ignoring everything can leave your dog confused. Dogs need guidance — not punishment, but direction.

✅ What to do instead:
Redirect and reward. If your dog jumps up, calmly step back and reward four paws on the floor. If they bark for attention, wait for a quiet moment and reward the silence. Teaching what to do instead of what not to do builds understanding.

Myth 4: You Can’t Teach an Old Dog New Tricks

This one’s an easy myth to bust! Dogs of all ages are capable of learning new skills. In fact, mature dogs often learn faster because they already understand basic routines and communication.

✅ What to do instead:
Use positive reinforcement, short sessions, and patience. Adjust expectations to your dog’s energy and ability, but never underestimate their willingness to learn.

Learning never stops — for you or your dog.

Myth 5: Some Dogs Are Just ‘Stubborn’

When a dog doesn’t respond, it’s rarely defiance — it’s usually confusion, distraction, or stress. Labelling a dog as stubborn often overlooks what’s really happening: they don’t yet understand what’s being asked.

✅ What to do instead:
Break training down into smaller steps and make sure your dog is set up to succeed. Check the environment — are there too many distractions? Are they tired or nervous? Clear communication and compassion always get better results than frustration.

Final Thoughts From Me

Modern training is about understanding, not overpowering. It’s about clear communication, patience, and building a relationship where both you and your dog feel understood.

At The Mojo Method, I help you replace old myths with new understanding — through calm, connection, and clarity.

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